If you looking at this page then I’m going to assume you may be considering divorce, going through a divorce, been affected by divorce, or one of the million other ways divorce destroys lives and families. If you aren’t, then what the hell are reading this for?! Go outside, enjoy the sun, get a ice cream, do something positive with you life ya morbid weirdo! But, if you are, then I am truly sorry for your loss. I am truly grieving with you in your pain. I too have had and am enduring this nightmare. Your not alone friend. I decided to put this blog together to chronicle document my journey through this so that others may learn and maybe prepare and or avoid what I’ve had to endure. I am going to attempt steer clear of any ex bashing which is difficult to say the least. I’ve concluded that there are a myriad of reasons why divorce happens. The only thing I can say is what so many others have told me, you can’t get divorced by yourself. It takes involvement of both parties to wreck a marriage. The only thing you should do is own your participation in it and work to fix whats wrong inside of you and you alone. With that being said, here is my story.